BE IN CONTROL

YOU HAVE THE POWER

SO BE IN CONTROL.

WE OFTEN THINK THAT BECAUSE OF OUR IMMEDIATE CIRCUMSTANCES AND/OR INTERACTIONS THAT WE MUST BEHAVE OR RESPOND IN WAYS THAT ARE LEVEL WITH THE INTENSITY IN WHICH WE ARE FACED, BUT CONTRARY TO OUR STANDARD BELIEFS, WE CAN BE THE BETTER SELF.

 

FALLING FOR NEGATIVE INTERACTIONS:

DO NOT FEEL THAT YOU HAVE TO GIVE PEOPLE THE AMOUNT OF NEGATIVE ENERGY THAT IS PORTRAYED TO YOU, THAT YOU HAVE TO STEP OUT OF YOUR OWN CHARACTER TO MATCH WITH THOSE WHO ARE BEING LOUD, DISRESPECTFUL AND AGGRESSIVE WITH YOU.

 

BE THE STRONGER POWER:

MUCH LIKE PENDULUM CLOCKS ON DIFFERENT RHYTHMS, THEY ARE DRAWN TO BE SYNCHRONIZED TO HAVING THE SAME RHYTHM JUST BY MATCHING ITS SOUND AND VIBRATIONS OF ONE ANOTHER. WHEN THERE IS A PENDULUM CLOCK THAT IS THE LARGEST SIZE AND SMALLER PENDULUM CLOCKS SWINGING AT VARIOUS RHYTHMS, EVENTUALLY THE SMALLER CLOCKS WILL MATCH THE LARGER OF THE CLOCKS VIBRATIONS BEING AT THE SAME RHYTHM.

THIS GOES FOR US WITH HUMAN VIBRATIONS, TOO. CONTROL YOUR ENERGY TO BEING AT A CALM, EVEN TEMPERED AND POSITIVE STATE NO MATTER HOW AGGRESSIVE, CONFRONTATIONAL OR NEGATIVE ONE MAY PRESENT THEMSELVES TO BE.

BE THE STRONGER POWER.

 

LET'S BE REMEMBER:

• DO NOT REACT - RESPOND

• YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY WILL ONLY BRING MORE UNFAVORABLE EVENTS INTO YOUR LIFE

• BEHAVING IN UNPLEASANT DEMEANORS OFTEN DOES NOT GET US WHAT WE WANT

• THERE ARE MORE EFFECTIVE WAYS OF COMMUNICATION COMPARED TO THAT OF AGGRESSION

• SOLVING PROBLEMS BEGINS WITH CLEAR COMMUNICATION

• IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD

 

HOW DO YOU REALLY FEEL?

WHEN WE ARE IN THE HEAT OF AN ARGUMENT, WE OFTEN JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS ABOUT WHY THINGS ARE THE WAY THEY ARE, WITHOUT CLEAR REASONING. WE BEGIN TO TELL PEOPLE ABOUT THEMSELVES AND/OR THINK THAT THE WORLD IS OUT TO GET US FOR REASONS THAT ARE OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES.

WE MUST INTROSPECT

START TO LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF AND FIND WHAT OUR TRUE ISSUE IS. STOP BLAMING OTHER PEOPLE FOR YOUR PROBLEMS AND VALIDATING YOUR CHALLENGES BECAUSE SOMEONE DID OR DID NOT DO SOMETHING.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL

IF YOUR LIFE IS GOING, AND HAS CONTINUED TO GO, IN WAYS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE DIFFERENTLY - YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR PREVIOUS APPROACHES TO GETTING A DIFFERENT OUTCOME. IF YOU CONTINUE TO MAKE ATTEMPTS TO CHANGING A SITUATION BY GIVING THE SAME INPUT, YOU WILL ONLY CONTINUE TO GETTING THE SAME OUTCOME. IT'S MATH.

BREAK YOUR HABITS

STOP BEING SO COMFORTABLE IN YOUR WAYS THAT YOU BELIEVE THE WORLD OR PEOPLE IN YOUR WORLD OWE YOU SOMETHING. THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT IS IF YOU GO OUT THERE AND BE THE CHANGE IN YOUR OWN WORLD. LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT HANDOUTS. EVEN IF THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO SEEM TO HAVE IT EASY IN GETTING WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE, IT IS BECAUSE THEY HAVE A CONSISTENT MINDSET THAT MATCHES THEIR GOALS.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

DO NOT GO INTO THE WORLD THINKING NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY OR DIFFERENT APPROACHES YOU MAKE, NOTHING GOOD WILL EVER COME. THIS IS A PART OF YOUR PROBLEM - NEGATIVE THINKING. WHAT YOUR BELIEVE LIFE TO BE, WILL BE. CHANGE YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS INTO POSITIVE ONES, SEE CHANGE HAPPEN ALMOST IMMEDIATELY.

 

YOU HAVE THE POWER.